It really irks me when people don't plan and then expect my life to be altered to fit their needs. Does this sound familiar? You have your day planned and someone calls and says they need your help. They say, "Hey, I need you to take me somewhere". "When?” you ask. "Right now.” "What??!! Are you serious?” "How long have you known you needed a ride?" "Oh, I've known for a week or so, but I just thought you'd be able to help." By now, you're possibly flabbergasted. Scene over. If you're like me, I ask what the favor is before I offer my help. I never want to commit myself to something without knowing the full picture. Does that mean that I'm not flexible or not spontaneous? No!! It's selfish on the other person's part to expect you to alter your routine because of their lack of planning. Of course, if it is a true emergency or you’re able to help, do so. As a general rule, I suggest not putting anyone in that position. Plan so that you can keep the peace.
Dr. D. Clutter™
About Me
- Dr. DClutter™
- I am Dr. Darnita L. Payden, Executive Director/Owner of Dr. DClutter™ Life Management, a division of PreciousOnes™ LLC. I have a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology and over 20 years of experience working to help clients discover their strengths and talents. Having worked as a therapist, college professor, grief specialist and trainer, I have encountered in my journey many of the issues my clients may face. I have a sincere desire to help you find clarity, organization and independence in your life and environments. I know that life can be hectic, but I desire to help my clients bring as much order, peace and enjoyment back into their lives as is possible. What separates me from the norm? I focus on the client from a holistic perspective. I realize that most people desire a functional and an organized life, but may simply need support, understanding and information about why they have the habits or tendencies that have led to disorganization. I do not perform “quick fixes” or provide “one-size-fits-all” guidance, but I strive to provide strategies to my clients that will be life changing and useful for a lifetime. Dr. DClutter™ is a name well earned!!
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